Perfect Fit Lab-Grown Diamond Engagement Ring For You

There are so many questions that may cross your mind before shopping for your engagement. Many people often have a lot of doubts about the accepted norms of engagement ring buying. These queries and how you resolve them can actually make a huge difference when you propose to someone special. A lot of these aspects are subjective, which means they vary from person to person. Before buying the final ring, people often find themselves questioning every decision they make about the ring.

Doubts like ‘Does the bling of the ring matter a lot?’, or ‘Is the price of the ring a deal-breaker?’ or even something like ‘Is the selection process a two-person job or should it be a surprise?’, all these questions are encountered frequently by people who are doing engagement ring shopping. 

Well not to worry, we are here to elaborate and explain the proper code of conduct and etiquette one might follow while buying a precious diamond for an engagement ring, on top of that we will also give you some time on how to make the process easier and avoid any mishappenings.

Does price matter?

The first aspect of engagement shopping which seems to trouble people is how much money should they spend on buying a ring. According to popular belief, your budget should be equivalent to three months worth of salary. However many have rendered this an obsolete and baseless notion.

In a survey conducted amongst 2000 women, it was found out that they actually did not give an immense amount of weightage to the price of the ring. A lot of women in the survey answered that the budget of the ring did not really matter and one should only buy a ring they can afford.

Many women also answered that more than the price of the ring what was important is what the ring signifies and the importance of commitment. However, 20% of the women from the survey did concede to the notion that the price of the ring should be equivalent to 3 months’ worth of earnings.

Does size matter?

How shiny or brilliant should the ring be? 
Should I focus on the quality of the stone or the size of the stone? 
Is a minimalistic ring going to disappoint my partner? 

All these questions arise in the mind of the shopper. Simplistic ring designs are evergreen. A classic solitaire or a gypsy set platinum band will forever be a favorite in the engagement ring section. The value of the diamond, however, does not just rest on the size, what determines its value are the 4C’s which are clarity, cut, carat weight, and color. Focus on these areas especially.

Another thing which you need to pay attention to is what matters to your partner and what kind of a ring they would want. A study shows that the stronger and deeper the commitment, the less is the value of the materialistic aspects in a relationship.

Who pops the question?

Who proposes who? This is also a very popular confusion amongst couples. Should one of the partners wait for the other to propose? Should one concede to the societal norms of men proposing first? If I do not propose will my partner never pop the question?

The same survey mentioned before reflected that 79% of women believe that a man should be the one to propose. But the notion today is changing and many people believe that there is nothing wrong with the idea of women proposing. However, no one can deny the fact that most women dream to have an ideal proposal by their ideal partner.

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Things you remember to make the perfect proposal

What is the perfect proposal?

An out of the movie proposal with dancers and music and stage or a candlelight dinner for two dim lighting and great food, which one is the best way to propose. The kind of proposal that would be perfect depends on the relationship if your partner is a fan of grand gestures or they like personal and private things. Is your partner comfortable with a public display of affection or do they like to keep things between you two only?

There are a lot of aspects that you need to look at while planning the perfect proposal. A good understanding of what your partner likes and dislikes makes things easier. Another thing that might help is to recall their reactions to other gifts or gestures in the past. You can also consider taking the help of their friends or family while planning the proposal.

Who pays for the ring?

With the advent of feminism, many people are not accepting the notion that the cost of the ring can be split. The burden of the ring should not fall on the other person and it is completely normal to split the cost. However personal preference and the relationship dynamic need to be kept in mind while making such a decision. It depends on the couple if one of the partners wants to bear the cost as a gesture of love. What matters the most is the individual choice and a decision which both the parties agree to.

Is it a one-person job?

Should you and your spouse both be involved in buying the ring? One of the most exciting parts of the proposal is the surprise element. The anticipation and the element of not knowing.

However, if you want to take help from your partner then try to not do it directly. Ask them indirect questions or you can take the advice or help of friends and family. If you want to help your partner in buying the ring but do not want to do it directly try dropping hints or conveying the message through a friend indirectly.

What if your partner or you do not like the ring?

What if your partner does not like the ring? If you suspect that your partner does not like the ring, try talking to them about it. Reassure them that it is alright to express their opinion. If your partner has conveyed to you that they do not like the ring, check with the store if it can be exchanged according to their choice.

If you are on the other side of the table and you do not like the ring you have received, firstly try to take time. See if you can grow to like the ring, sometimes what appears not so appealing at first, later grows to be something you become very fond of. Always keep in mind the time and effort put in the proposal and the ring is far greater than what the ring looks like. If the ring is something you absolutely cannot accept, try communicating this to your partner politely.

What about family heirlooms?

How to convey to your partner that their engagement ring is not unique to them? Will they be okay with wearing something from my family? Engagement rings which are family heirlooms can be a tricky thing to convey. You must have a frank and honest discussion about the situation with your partner and express to them the significance of this heirloom to you and your family.

You also need to meet your partner midway and see if there is any way you can accommodate their choices or compensate somehow. Clear and honest communication is the only way to resolve this problem.

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Conclusion Thoughts

The unsaid rules of engagement ring shopping are absolutely important but always remember that choice and subjectivity are huge factors to consider while preparing for the perfect proposal. All the above tips and rules are something which is based on popular opinion and studying the audience however it is completely up to you and your partner to make a different decision. We hope our guide helps in planning for the big day. Happy shopping!